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Sex can be fun and full of excitement. But in due course of time, it tends to get mundane. Why must a couple endure bored sex when there are now some exciting new props that can reignite the lost flame?

Sex toys can take your sex life to the next level. These toys can help you both discover new things about each other, and explore the pleasure zones that were previously unknown.

Having said that, these sex toys involve the stimulation, insertion, and connection with the genital and anal area, which by itself is delicate and vulnerable. And so as a couple can continue enjoying and exploring each other’s sexuality, taking care and being safe must never be forgotten. This is especially important in case of sex toys that must be inserted like dildos, vibrators and butt plugs.

Care with sex toys that are inserted:

When it comes to sex toys like love plugs or butt plugs as they are commonly called, safety is essential. This is a toy that can be enjoyed by men and women both. Simply because of the nature of this toy and the fact that it is inserted into the anus, one needs to take full care.

Firstly, it is best if each person has a sex toy of their own, and even if you do share the toy, you must consider putting a condom over it. It is important to always wash the butt plus with warm water and anti-bacterial soap immediately after use. All the lubricant and fecal material need to be cleaned off its surface.

If you are wondering for how long can you leave a butt plugin, it is subjective. You can insert it for anything right from 30 minutes to a few hours, or as long as you want to feel the pleasures. However, it is advisable to remove the butt plug every couple of hours, reapply the lubrication before inserting it again. This way you can stay safe and enjoy at the same time.…


Most girls love being asked out and pampered to the core on a date, especially if it is a first date. The more you give your girl the attention she craves the more likely you are make a great impression on her.

Though you might wine her and dine her and give her gifts, the most important question that always arises is what to talk. Every time I go out on a date, this is the place I used to get stuck in every single time. But over the years and with experience I have come to the conclusion that almost girls are comfortable with certain set questions and by asking these questions you can never go wrong or make your date feel awkward, uncomfortable or out of place. In fact she will start admiring and liking you more for being so caring, thoughtful, smart, understanding intelligent and compassionate too. Here are some of my favorite questions to ask girls when I take them out or meet them at a party.

  • You’re looking fabulous. Where did you pick up that dress from?
  • You have a lot of knowledge? Who is your favorite author?
  • You seem to be very popular. How many best friends do you have?
  • Do you like to travel? Which would be your dream destination for a holiday?
  • What are all the things you would love to do in the near future?
  • What are your goals? Where do you see yourself a couple of years from now?
  • Do you like to go out on dates?
  • What do your fear the most?
  • Have you ever gone on a blind date?
  • What do you think are your best characteristics?
  • What is the best thing you would like to do on a date?
  • What are your feelings about me?

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