Talking it out is always the answer:
If you have been into sexual fantasizing and have been wondering what is best for you at this point in life, let me assure you that whatever it is that is currently on your mind and is consuming you, you will need to, first of all, make sure that you and your partner both are on the same plane on this.
Why it is so important that both of you are the same fetishes?
For reasons of agreement and to make sure that you both derive pleasures equally from this experience, is paramount and there are no two things about it that beside the point that you must be almost thinking alike there must be a complete understanding of the know-how of how any particular fetish works for you to be able to have the most fun.
Where do you look for such partners?
If you have a partner already whom you trust and you are sure to be with for as long as you be, you have to just sit and talk to him or her about it to be able to know what exactly is running in their minds. A transparent conversation about your expectations from the experience and alleviating their own fears can be a significant step in ensuring that something great will only come out of this whole experience.
Dating sites on the internet:
There are websites on the internet that are dedicated to people who want to find partners who are similar fetishes. Like this site that I had explored recently had people who mentioned clearly in their bio-data as to their preferences and the fetishes that they are into and open about. It helps to zero on the right date so less complicated. In the end, you only want to have a nice time and ensure that your partner does too!